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Cyprian’s School – Eastbourne |
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CORRESPONDENCE |
Thank you to
David for sending the following e-mail. I
hope you do not mind me writing to you in connection with the St.Cyprian's
School website. I
only encountered the site a few months ago after my mother and I had made a
trip to We
understand that she worked as a nurse at the nursing home or hospital next
door to the lodge and was recruited to the school from there. She left the
school on her marriage to John Menzies in 1920 and my grandfather had at
least on one occasion visited from I
had also heard much from my grandmother about the school and was told on more
on one occasion that the "boys at St Cyp's" would never have
behaved in the way that I did as a boy. On
her marriage she received several wedding presents from masters, staff and
pupils at the school, including a Singer sewing machine with a plaque and a silver
chocolate warming pot with an inscription on behalf of the Masters. Inside
the pot we still have a short letter of congratulations on school notepaper.
It is signed by the teachers, Mr. Sillar, Mr. Ratcliffe, Mr. Gingell, Mr.
Whitehead and Mr. Fielding. The Wilkes gave her an ivory handled cutlery set
which is now in the possession of my cousin. We also have a domestic science
book which my grandmother must have used at the time with her name and
address at the school written on the fly leaf. There is also a postcard in
the book which she must have used as a bookmark from a pupil's mother asking
that items of school clothing be forwarded. We also have a few photographs
from the time, one with a small boy and girl, probably at At
one stage, my Mother had a programme from one of the school plays (possibly
the Mikado) in which my grandmother's name was mentioned as the wardrobe
mistress. Sadly this disintegrated some time ago. I also have among my own
books a booklet (which may well have been a publicity booklet at the time) of
various photographs of the school and grounds. However,
one my main reasons in writing to you is to say that our understanding of the
regime at St. Cyprian's under Mr. and Mrs, Wilkes is very much along the
lines that you describe in your website. My mother's sight is failing now and
over the past year or so I have read relevant transcripts on to tape of the
books by or about Henry Longhurst, Cecil Beaton and Cyril Connolly. I
likewise read "Such, such were the joys" on to tape. My mother had
to listen to the latter at least twice to absorb the content which came as a
considerable surprise. It bore no relation whatsoever to the very positive
way in which my Grandmother described the several years that she spent at the
school. My
Grandmother died in 1970. Although life was no doubt very different between
1915 and 1920, I can say with absolute certainty that she would have been
utterly appalled by the Orwell essay and would have been very seriously
offended at the suggestion that she had been part of such a regime. My
mother and very much enjoyed seeing the lodge in Last Updated February 2008 |
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